Coaching

Recommendation – How to read the words in the New Dictionary:

A word is a vessel through which essence, energy passes. The word is never the thing itself.

What is the real “thing”? It is good to answer this question in silence.

Therefore the invitation to this dictionary is “tricky”; it seems like it tries to replace one “definition” with another “definition” but it does not. This dictionary is an opportunity to look at a word from a different perspective than we are used to. And ask what is the essence of this word, coming from the mystery? From nature? From the inconceivable knowing that everything is one, everything is motion and I am a part of it?
From here you will find that the new “definition” sometimes sounds poetic or even irritating to the mind, because it cannot understand it. It’s OK. Let the words be a tool and listen to the energy that passes through them. That’s exactly what we came here to do.

Coming out of the knowing that everything is connected and everything is in motion:

Coaching is a space for love and simplicity. It provides a place for the person being coached to be one with what he’s doing, and through this to remember the natural, constant motion of all things and beings – himself included.

This beauty is in itself worth everything.

It is a powerful and vivid and gives motivation. The goal is inspiration, not a particular condition or result. My desire to achieve is for my own joy and it also benefits everyone involved. A person being coached is able witnesses, through the coach, another person sharing the desire to learn.

This awakening happens quietly. There is no struggle and no struggle is needed. It comes from an inner knowing of the soul witnessing its private language being spoken in words.

The reality created: When I do what I do because I want to, because I love it and feel drawn to it and curious about it, I’m driven by a force which is bigger and wiser than me. That alone can send me to places that exist beyond my imagination and cultivate connections that I never deemed possible. Now imagine what would happen if everyone worked like this!

We got used to:

…turn to coaching to help us reach a destination or a goal. We believe that we’re not good enough as we are right now. We think that we’re only worth something if we achieve our goals, if we reach our destination. We believe that if we don’t work hard, we will go nowhere and perhaps we will even go backwards. We believe that our value is dependent on something, that our abilities or capabilities are conditional to our value. Coaching comes to push us forward, even if it costs us a heavy price.

The reality created: We are constantly fighting HERE to get to THERE. There’s a constant feeling of danger. We live in fear that we will be worth nothing if we don’t reach our goals.