Recommendation – How to read the words in the New Dictionary:

A word is a vessel through which essence, energy passes. The word is never the thing itself.

What is the real “thing”? It is good to answer this question in silence.

Therefore the invitation to this dictionary is “tricky”; it seems like it tries to replace one “definition” with another “definition” but it does not. This dictionary is an opportunity to look at a word from a different perspective than we are used to. And ask what is the essence of this word, coming from the mystery? From nature? From the inconceivable knowing that everything is one, everything is motion and I am a part of it? 
From here you will find that the new “definition” sometimes sounds poetic or even irritating to the mind, because it cannot understand it. It’s OK. Let the words be a tool and listen to the energy that passes through them. That’s exactly what we came here to do.

Coming out of the knowing that everything is connected and everything is in motion:


A man is a unique and specific expression of creation. His individual movement, his way of seeing things, his way of creating and his own creativity generate motion and lead to numerous and fruitful possibilities. 


A man is part of a whole and views himself as such. And in this whole (of which he is one part) there is also a woman who is generating motion and creating an unparalleled reality through which he must pass in order to awaken to his true nature.


The reality created:  There are no power games. There is only seeking or exploring the other. There is deep gratitude for each individual’s unique nature and allowing it to shine. In this kind of world, the mystery of femininity is not a threat or something foreign, but rather an invitation to truly immerse, to live and be revived.


“And the spirit rests upon him, the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and the fear of God; and he shall not judge that which his eyes have seen nor reprove that which his ears have heard.”  Isaiah 2, verses 1-3.




It is true that the definition of “a man” and “a woman” has changed greatly in recent decades and yet, we will refer here to the way we have become accustomed to seeing a man in the old sense because it is still very relevant:


We got used to thinking that

Man is the one who shows bravery, who knows what he wants and what will lead him to his goal. He will not let anyone divert him from his path. He knows that it is because of him that things happen and that this has been true since the beginning of time. He knows that everything is thanks to him. He is the one who gives life.  According to the old definition, man has the right to control others and others will gain safety and worth when they acknowledge that fact.  


Man assigns values to all things and he also has the power to take away that value. He can strip things of their meanings, he can invent new rules, and if others know what is good for them, they will obey. 


The reality created: The beauty of femininity and its associated qualities are considered to be weakness, of secondary importance, if at all.  The extent to which women understand men is of prime importance and is that which determines a woman’s life and position. As a result, feminine wisdom and charisma are almost completely lost, set aside, hidden. What is kept is only what men find useful, valuable and comprehensible to their worldview. Men become scared of being led or guided. They fear showing emotions or not knowing “the way”.  The world becomes thin, flat and motionless. Possibilities are limited to “this or that” and competition and suppression become valid methods for dealing. 



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